Deep. Depth.
This will be a short one. You are welcome, tsk, tsk!
I dunno if you're like me......... (and if you are, holy crap I feel sorry for you!).. Nah, I think we're all alike in this.
The depth of friendship in some... be it a loved one, friend - any pillar in one's life.
Many things surround, include, define that... two that come to mind are, sharing braggadocio, and, at the other enda the spectrum, sorrow. (And of course, anything, everything in between!)
Color me a chocolate mess on the braggadocio because I've long said, arrogance runs me off quicker than a Rottweiler at the gate... but by golly, if you can't share something you're truly proud of (like, what a grandkid said or did.... or, a feat you'e been trying to attain for a long time, finally did it - and shared with that person that means so much to you....... that's where I was going.
Sorrow........ pride is hard to swallow, but, sometimes it will go down. We all, I think, have disappointment, sadness, frailties, hurtful moments in life........ when we share that admission with someone about some aspect in our life...... it's HUGE to me to be able to do that. Much we keep couped up inside and there's no argue if that's one's choice..... and some do, forever and ever. I think it's truly healthy to share personal sorrow.... AGREE, it can be overdone, overshared - but, I think usually not. If that happens, it becomes a personal 'trait', and that ain't a good thing. The ain't it awful game sucks - but again, how's the song go.. We all need, someone, to lean on.
One last thought. It ain't a one way street. That confidante', wonderful person we speak to, share.... the roads run East-West, North-South... ie, we are equally as good a listener (and welcoming too)... two way traffic.
Occasionally, sharing a doozy (or, listening to one being shared) is cleansing, healthy, natural.
Well...........
Life is a deep subject, thanks for listening.
Love, Victurd
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